Six Secrets About Men's Orgasms
Every
Woman Must Know!
What women think they know about men might get them to the prom but
won’t take them to the moon. Men, on average, don’t know exactly what
they want because they haven’t totally experienced it yet. Some people
think that if you put two virgins in a honeymoon bed that eventually
they will figure it out. The chances of that are about the same as if
you put a chimpanzee before a computer and expect him to come up with
the encyclopedia over time.
The key to success in the bedroom, as well as anything in life, requires
desire, technique, and perseverence. We can supply some information
that has worked for over thousands of years if you can supply the other
prerequisites. Now is the time to truly “rock his world.” As a group,
we’ve been studying and researching this subject for over 100 years. It
has worked on every continent and every country and it will work for
you.
1. Arousing his imagination and fantasies. According to
research, men think of sex approximately every 30 seconds. So, from
that fact we know that it not necessary to increase men’s desire. What
women should do is increase men’s imagination and fantasies. Instead of
making sex conditional upon what the man does, the woman would be
smart to let the man know that he’s going to get it but he won't know
exactly how it will happen. Instead of holding out, the woman should
give in – but on her terms. That might seem to be a semantics thing, but
it is an important distinction. The woman that can awaken a man’s
fantasies, and thereby, his imagination, has the world at her feet.
Some possibilities to work with are adapting the dress, place, and
scenarios. There are many sex games that you can consider. The more
games that you know about, the greater your possibilities for earth
shaking bliss. Boredom can make sex a mild and boring activity. If
you combine technique, with place, dress, and scenarios you can have a
very powerful get together. Really stretching his imagination will also
stretch his ability to please you.
2. Giving your man the foreplay he dreams about. The
brain is the biggest sex organ in the human body. Assuming that the
woman has thought about arousing his fantasies she can now put them to
work through foreplay. Women may take 72 hours of preparation to get
them fully ready for love making, and we know that men don’t take that
long…but the woman that takes at least the day to plan her strategy will
be totally rewarded for her strategic planning.
The foreplay she uses will be based upon what the man wants. How can the
woman tell what he will want? Simple. She asks him. This is part of his
fantasy. And the fact that the woman is willing to ask him and do what
he wants will give his imagination, trust, and adoration a big leap. We
have many techniques that the woman may employ.
Sometimes the man will ask his lover to do what she thinks he will like.
However it comes out, the woman should be ready to reasonably fulfill
his fantasies. Anything that permanently hurts or demeans the woman
should be excluded. As with caressing a woman’s clitoris, where less is
actually more, so is foreplay involving the man’s penis. Women should
seldom start sucking the man’s penis or stroking it firmly in foreplay.
This is the time for preparation, teasing, and fantasy. Start slow and
tease with your finger tips, tip of tongue, and mouth. Think about a
dress-up where you play some other person to fulfill his fantasy. You
might also think about starting in a difference place like a bar, a
parking lot in a mall at night, or in a restaurant.
3. Giving him a penile orgasm. Men have three types of
orgasms: Penile, prostrate, and a combination. Usually you should start
with the penile orgasm. Women should use a four-step oral sex technique
to give her man the pleasure he wants and needs. Every man loves to
have his penis treated like royalty!
The first step is teasing the head and shaft. The lady
should use her tongue to tease the guy in the way that he wants. That is
the key. Every guy likes it different and his wishes should be
respected, just like a woman's wishes should be respected. Some guys
like the shaft, the head, and the testicles licked. Some like one or
another. Plus the amount of teasing that guys like differs greatly.
The second step is stroking the shaft up in down,
preferably in a figure-eight motion. A figure-eight motion is where the
woman rubs the shaft up and down as she rotates her wrist, thereby
getting that magic motion. Without the hand motion this fun time is
rather sterile. Virtually all guys masturbate, so they are used to it
and want it. If the woman can show him some new tricks or just discover
what he really wants, she will have a great explosion awaiting her - and
him.
The third step is where the lady strokes the shaft and
sucks the head at the same time. Generally, if she works in a light
motion with both the hand and the lips, she can tease him crazy. After
she feels his penis start to swell up and convulse, then she can
increase the pressure of both. Then she should ask him how he wants it.
"Are you ready to go?"
The fourth step is where the woman then uses her mouth
as if it were her vagina. She should practice sucking the ejaculate out
of him just as she would do with her honey pot. She should work to
"milk" him with her mouth. If she will use this four-step process he
will go nuts! The lady can practice on a hot dog or banana to get the
proper motion. She might cook it with the heat of her mouth. A dildo
could also be used to good effect, especially a thick one that resembles
a real member.
Attention should be placed on the ridge, to stimulate it without cease.
The sucking motion is not unlike the motion that a man should use on her
breast. If the woman can mentally rehearse that then she will have the
sucking/screwing motion down to a "t." She could also use her vagina to
rub his penis like a rasp and then milk him dry. Or it could be a
combination of mouth and vagina. Again, look for the fulfillment of his
fantasy.
4. Giving him the prostrate orgasm to give him a turbo thrust.
The prostrate gland is located externally between the base of the
penile shaft and the anus. This is called the perineum. Internally, it
is located about one and one half inches inside the opening and can be
located with a fairly firm pressure toward the front. The prostrate is
walnut-sized and more firm than the surrounding soft tissue.
The lady should not stimulate the man’s prostrate before he has had a
firm erection. In other words, stimulate the man’s penis before the
prostrate. Otherwise, stimulation of the prostrate may be uncomfortable.
There sometimes is a certain order to things that make it more
successful. This is certainly one of those times.
There are two main ways to stimulate the prostrate. The way to begin is
probably the external method because of several reasons. First, it is
usually easier and more comfortable. Second, with most things sexual, it
is best to start on the outside before going inside. Women should use a
rather firm touch of one or two fingers on the external prostrate after
the man has an ejaculation by penile stimulation. By pressing on the
prostrate at this point, it will magnify his erection and stimulate his
body to start processing the semen for ejaculation. Both very good
things. In addition, the man will begin to feel a pleasant, deep feeling
that perhaps he felt a little of at the time he had a penile
ejaculation. This will amplify that feeling. Continue rubbing the
perineum until the man has an orgasm. It may take several attempts
before this is successful.
Remember, better late than never. After several external successes, the
lady should be ready for internal stimulation. She should be well
lubricated and perhaps wear rubber gloves. In no case should she
stimulate her own vagina, without washing, as this could cause
infection. Slowly insert the index finger into the anus, pointing it
upward toward the pubic bone – not straight into the body but pointing
forward. Insert the finger in and out and perhaps in a circular motion,
as well.
The lady can press both the external and internal portions of the
prostrate and surround it with a wall of feeling. She can use a pincer
movement of her fingers and totally blow his mind. She may continue this
motion until he has an orgasm or wait and give even more pleasure.
5. Using the Penile and Prostrate Combinations. If the
lady has followed the first four steps, the man will be very ready to
have a large orgasm. In fact, if the woman stimulates the prostrate both
internally and externally and then either strokes, sucks, or uses her
vagina to finish him off he will be getting the maximal stimulation that
a man can get.
If she uses manual stimulation, she can use one hand to give him the
pincer movement and the other hand to stroke his penis, using a circular
and vertical stroking action. This should drive him wild. If she
chooses to give him oral satisfaction, she can use the one hand for a
pincer motion as she milks him with her mouth.
Again, this is the ultimate type of stimulation for a man. Using her
vagina to complete the action will take some coordination on her part.
She should either side aside his penis or let him ride her as she
pincers his prostrate. Try different methods and see which one works
best. In any case, this will probably turn out to be the highlight of
his day or any other day. Remember, if you don’t succeed at first – then
try, try again.
6. Anchoring your man through fantasy. Just like a
woman loves to be held, caressed, and kissed after making love, a man
loves to be accepted, loved, and complimented after a great session.
This is also the time that a woman can anchor her man to herself. She
can do that by using her imagination to magnify his fantasies for coming
attractions. She might ask him what he’d like to try next time.
Start exploring times, places, costumes, scenarios, and techniques. Find
one that really turns him on. Remember that the brain is the largest
sex organ of the body. As an added benefit, she might find that he is
ready to go again. This is especially good for the man that sometimes
makes love, and then turns over and goes to sleep. Stimulating his
imagination again after he’s had one fantasy come true, links fantasy to
real.
The 7 Types Of Women's Orgasms
Women love to be slowly tantalized, and driven slowly, past the brink to
a shuddering conclusion! You can do it with 7 different orgasms and
using 7 different tips. How can you lose with these PROVEN techniques?
This is a mind blower! Use extreme caution - because you need a place
where she can scream, convulse, and go nuts!
1st Technique. You want to start at the top, her head and go south. Give her a no-touch orgasm
by stimulating her brain. You can do that by describing, in great
detail, with her feedback, how you're going to give her orgasms. Make
sure start with a hot fantasy or sex game that she wants. Make it
tailored to her. If you get her involvement she will be really hot. This
can be a very, very intense and large orgasm.
2nd Technique. Now, go down to her breasts and give her a breast orgasm.
You can do that by teasing her at first on her nipples. Then slowly add
more and more sucking pressure. The more of her breast that you can
place into your mouth the better it will be. Ask her for feedback. You
don't want to hurt her but you want to use the maximum suction pressure.
3rd Technique. Heading down, you take your clitoris
in your mouth and slowly suck it. Then you lick the end and pull it.
Then withdraw, and let it go. Retreat and tease her. Make her come to
you. Let her arch her pelvis off the ground and impale her clitoris on
your mouth or hand.
4th Technique. Now, go to her g-spot
and slide your finger or tongue inside on it. She will convulse and
start to twitch if you've used the other techniques to this point. Of
course, at any time you can give her tons of combinations. There are 7
to the 7th power or 800,000 combinations. Use an upward motion, so you
hit her g-spot firmly. Use a steady rhythm until she starts shaking.
5th Technique. Inside herself, 8 inches inside, is her deep vaginal
spot. You can reach that with your penis, deep vaginal vibrations from
previous orgasms, or with your hot ejaculate. She can straddle your lap,
lean back and you can reach all of her vaginal hot spots with each
stroke.
6th Technique. Female ejaculations.
Women would like to try this orgasmic sensation. Usually stimulating the
g-spot will bring this off. It requires deep, intense, and long
pressure.
7th Technique. When you give her an intense g-spot orgasm you can set her up for a delayed, or residual orgasm.
It can happen 1-2 days after the sexual stimulation. Then she might be
driving or cooking dinner and start to convulse and have a nice orgasm.
Once you know these 7 types of female orgasms, you can put them together in combinations.
There are over 800,000 combinations of women's orgasms! You
couldn't use all the combinations if you tried this several times per
night for the rest of your life.sucks in, blows out, and convulses - all
at once! The woman cannot get her bearings and feels an extreme rush of
pleasure.
Free Sex Games
1. Costumes. You can make things spicy by
simply changing your outfit. Perhaps your man wants you to wear a
bunny outfit, or a young school girl's outfit. Is that too much to
ask? By the same token, you might want him to wear a policeman's
uniform. What is good for one is good for the other.
2. Place. You can spice things up by changing the
place where your interlude takes place. Maybe your man wants you
to go to a bar and have him hit on you. Perhaps he'd love to feel
you up under the table. There's tons of possiblities here.
3. Time. Have you ever met somebody at 1
a.m.? Or 4 a.m.? It can be very erotic. Everything is
dark and mysterious. Change all three of this scenarios and you
can make something really HOT.
4. Change the players. Maybe your guy wants you
to go into a bar and start flirting with a particular guy. Then he
wants you to come over to him and start madly kissing him.
There's lots of possiblities here.
5. Play a little game. Ever played a card game
for the type of love making that you engage in? Or maybe who will
make the first step and what that is? You can use cards, dice, or
even make up some playing cards for whatever your mind can
entertain. Imagine putting all 5 of these concepts together!